Forgiveness as a Tool for Transition

Arcturian Council of 12D

We recognize that in the difficult world in which you all live that there is no greater task than that of forgiveness. There are so many microaggressions you experience daily in addition to the larger disappointments of life. Eventually these all fester and boil to the surface and often we end up taking our frustrations out on those closest to us because we know they won’t leave us for acting out. This is frequently followed by feelings of regret and remorse which also build over time when we seem to not be able to do anything to stop the vicious cycle.

There are so many times you are asked to forgive in a day that it becomes exhausting. Whether it’s forgiving an old lady for pulling out in front of you in traffic, forgiving your partner for failing to do the dishes again, or forgiving your boss for overlooking your dedication to the job. And then in addition to that your guides ask you to forgive the major misfortunes of your life such as having a surgery, caring for a sick family member, having that extra bill come up that you know will set your financial goals back, or just feeling unappreciated overall.

It can all so easily lead to burn out and turn the brightest, sweetest angel into a depleted demon overnight. Everyone hits walls where they know they have reached their limit and yet life keeps asking you to give. In these moments a person has to step back and ask why they are doing what they are doing and if it’s a good enough reason to keep doing it. Sometimes a reminder of why we give is enough. In other cases it’s meant to be a wake-up call of just how much we have been overlooking ourselves and our needs.

People often have to make difficult decisions when choosing between their needs and the needs of others. We desperately do not want to let others down but we also need to recognize that the quality of care that we offer matters. What we mean by quality is the enjoyment for both parties. You are meant to give in life in ways in which are fulfilling and satisfying for you.

When you hit walls you realize you have given too much to some people and not enough to others who were really deserving of your time and attention (including yourself). This is where Grace steps in and asks you to forgive your past mistakes gently so that you can transition to balancing your time in the way that it was meant. The main goal of your guides is to provide you those signposts that point you in the direction of a life with greater flow and freedom while still checking off the to-do lists of life. They offer you now the opportunity to ask them for more support in forgiving your personal flaws, misguided beliefs, and bad habits you picked up in the past to cope. Everyone has these and through forgiveness we are able to shed these layers and evolve past them to become the more peaceful versions of ourselves that we deserve to be.

“I deserve forgiveness in my life so that I can keep my heart light for the good life has to offer.”